There is an art of clitoral massage that all men need to learn. Clitoral massage is a great way to bring a woman to orgasm. Most women like a good clitoral massage at a time in foreplay or sex.
The most important thing to realize is that every woman is different when it comes to stimulating the clitoris. Many men do not realize that every woman has different needs in the area of clitoral massage. And most guys have only one way to touch and stimulate the clitoris.
The first skill a guy needs is good communication skills. Communication is a must in sexuality so that the man learns what his love really wants. Men must learn to ask their lover what works. The best way for a man to communicate is to ask simple and simple questions, as if you want more pressure, or do you want me to be lighter. Yes, no type question is the best way to communicate in love.
Some women love a lot of pressure in clitoral massage and others do not like at all the direct contact. Every woman has her favorite way to touch the clitoris. Another way to find out how your wife likes her clit to be touched is to ask her if you can watch her masturbate. This can be difficult for some, but it is worth asking. Watching your woman masturbate can be very informative and it is the best way for a man to learn to touch the clitoris.