If you want to succeed in attracting women, lose the pick-up lines and learn how to use flirtation body language. Communication experts tell us that most of the meaning is conveyed through body language, not words. Here are some reasons why this seduction tool is so powerful.
For starters, you can flirt with a woman on the other side of a room with little risk by showing her that you are interested. Secondly, a woman will feel more comfortable talking to a guy who is already showing signs of interest. Third, if you get a positive response to your flirtation, you know you can proceed with less chance of rejection. So, how can you use body language signals to communicate to women that you are a single man who wants to interact and have fun? Here are three tips.
Maintaining an Available Position
While it is true that women are more aware of body language, even men can interpret certain signals intuitively. For example, if a guy is sitting in a bar focusing on his drink, you do not need to be a body language expert to feel that this guy wants to be left alone. Most of us would decide that someone sitting like this is not interested in socializing. If you are interested in meeting a woman, it's a posture to avoid.
You have to face the crowd even if you are alone.
A right message gives the most positive message. Make a brief eye contact with the women who have watched your way. There is a bit of timing with that. Lock your eyes for a moment or two and then look away.
Also maintain friendly and open behavior if a woman manages to walk past. Smile and say hello, but do not try to engage in a conversation. The use of this type of open and friendly body language is a solid flirting foundation.
Using a Flirting Classic
Winking may sound a little old-fashioned, but there's a reason why it's a classic flirtation – it works. However, you must do it correctly or you can get away with it a bit scary. It's simple to do things right, but many guys are wrong. Here's the tip: make eye contact, smile before blinking, wink, then break eye contact. If you are with a group of friends, you can simply go back to their conversation.
It works well where it would be difficult to approach a woman more directly. This can happen if she is already engaged in a conversation or sitting with a group. By making a wink, you have made it curious and more likely to be interested in meeting you later. In addition, some women will come to talk to you almost immediately
Using Head Tilt
Let's be realistic: the favorite subject of most people is themselves and they respond positively to someone. One who is interested in it. You can use body language to create this strong nonverbal message by tilting your head like a woman is talking to you. An inclination of the head is a posture of interest.
Of course, it is also worth noting if she nods while you speak.
All of these body language cues help when you want to relate to women.
There is another very important use of body language. As you may have heard, women are attracted to "alpha" males. That is, men who radiate leadership and trust. It's a very powerful knowledge because this attraction is of biological origin. It comes from our genetic history when a woman needed a strong man to protect her in a physically dangerous world. As much as culture and society have changed, basic biology has not changed. Women are always attracted to Alpha males, whether they recognize it or not.
The good news for you is that any man can learn to radiate alpha characteristics that women find irresistible.