Death and life are in the power of language, and those who love it will eat the fruit of it (Proverbs 18:21). So you have a choice with regards to looking for a soul mate; either speak what you want or talk about what you do not want. In any case, you will have what you say. While the following tips are appropriate for men and women, this article targets women.
1. Stop Saying Negative Words
Remember the saying: "Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me"? Well, that's not true. Words kill, steal and destroy. Unfortunately, your words have set things in motion. As a result, you continue to have green grapes.
Do you find yourself saying things like:
· "Nobody likes me.
· Why does not anyone love me?
· Nothing good comes
· I attract the wrong people
· I will never get married
· Why would anyone want me?
· Nobody likes me.
· How did it land?
· What makes it so special?
These statements, however, convey doubt, envy, disbelief and a lack of confidence.In addition, when you repeat it, momentum creates a void. noticed how negative people yearn for the energy of a room? Well, defeatist words suck the life of any project.
Therefore, start paying attention to your words. Usually stop expressing sadness about yourself, others or what you want.If you must, wear an elastic band around your wrist. Once you think or speak as a pessimist
2. Start Saying Positive Words
First, communicate with confidence Nobody likes a loser or whiner In addition, you run the risk of chasing a potential companion.If you have low self-esteem, raise the bar.Today is a new Forget what has been or has not been.
Yet articulating hopeful words will be more difficult for some than for others. Therefore, I suggest reading self help books. Listening to sermons or motivational speakers online will also allow you to make the change.
Second, say positive words about what you want. Most people have an easier time getting rid of what they do not like. Do you know what you want? If your answer is no, stop the presses. Spend some quiet time thinking. Then make a list of the desires of your heart. Bring your list to the Father in prayer, believe you have it, and then use your words to bring it back.
3. When in doubt, do not speak.
Let's be realistic. Nobody said that life would be a bed of roses. Therefore, some bristling days of thorns. Moreover, when you are exhausted (mentally or physically), it is worse. On those days, avoid commenting on your situation. You are more likely to talk about despair.
Remember, words create! Your goal is to have what you want. If you speak negative words, you will have what you say.
Overall, the words you choose will stick or support the connection efforts with your soul mate. So, use them wisely.