If you read this, and you conform to the situation, the subject is already considered in your mind.
You may have read something about this, talking to a girlfriend who has been through this experience recently. heard about it at school. We hope to help you with a little guide. It's for you.
First of all, you must feel that it is the right thing to do. You should NOT be pushed, or the experience will not bring you the pleasure and good memories you expect and deserve. You are in charge of your life and your body. You really have to feel ready.
If you masturbate, you probably had a clitoral orgasm, so you know what is possible in terms of feelings. You must also know your own anatomy.
You know that you have outer lips that cover the vulva, and inner lips that are very flexible. If your hymen is intact, you will also tear it, with the sensations and bleeding that accompany it. Discover …
In the second consideration, do not make love if you have drunk too much alcohol. You can get drunk and lose a lot of your judgment after even a drink.
The third consideration is to emphasize the use of a condom with your partner. The reasons for this are well known, and there is certainly no excuse for not using it. You must be protected. This is a health problem, a very good way to avoid conception, and usually a good idea as this will help slow down your partner by desensitizing it a bit.
So to begin.
You can not have too many foreplay. This should take the form of a mutual kiss, an erotic massage, an exploration of the body of the other, to see where each of you is sensitive and has erogenous spots. Do not rush. It will soon be over as it is.
As long as you have foreplay, your uterus will produce all the important moisture that is needed. Believe us, the wettest the best. You can not be too wet for the first time. If you are a little adventurous, ask your partner to give you oral sex, and if you can, give your partner a blowjob. These are wonderful signs to show affection.
Make sure after your foreplay (and maybe fellatio) to put the condom if you have not already done so. The partner can take the first step to go straight into the standard missionary position. Bad idea. It's the worst position to lose your virginity. You are not in control, and it will be more painful and you can not do anything else but to sit there and take it.
Instead, try the girl in first position. Here you are in control. Your vagina has never had anything before (like a penis) and it has to accommodate it slowly … and it will do it.
If you lose your hymen, it is you who determine the speed and pressure with which it occurs. . You will not suffer, and if you are not yet wet enough, you can apply some water-based vaginal lubricant (like K-Y). The action is soon done, and you can go down to the push.
In the beginning, have your partner move without forcing, just applying pressure while fully inserted into your vagina. As he begins to feel natural, you can start pushing yourself.
At this point you can change positions (assuming your partner has lasted) and go on your back. However, do not settle for the simple position of the missionary, but slightly incline your pelvis, and ask your partner to hang on his arms and not to lie on you … this push will stimulate both your clitoris and your G. point. 19659002] There are many variables here, but you lose your virginity as we suggest, and you will have pleasant memories in your mind instead of feeling unfit, or used.