If you are a virgin, it is quite common for you to approach your first sexual experience with a little apprehension. You will have many questions to ask yourself: will I be good? is she going to orgasm? will I bleed? will I maintain an erection? It can be a combination of your anxiety and lack of self-confidence to make your first sexual encounter a disaster. This article will share with you some very powerful sexual tips for virgins. If you memorize them, I promise you that your first sexual release will be more than successful, it will be an extremely pleasant experience and one that may change your life.
1. Will I bleed or will she bleed?
It is common for a virgin woman to experience pain and low bleeding when she has sex for the first time. If you are in a hotel room or if you do not want to stain bed sheets, simply place a towel on the bed before you start. To minimize pain and blood circulation, make sure both enjoy lots of foreplay and use a lot of lubricant. Try to forget your pain and bleeding anxieties. Remember that these side effects of virgin sex are natural and quite common. Spend as much time as you can in the preliminaries and make sure both partners have aligned themselves with a lot of lubricant.
2. Communicating desires and fears
Communication is important in any relationship. Communication before and during sex for the first time is no less important. Share your hopes, share your fears. You will be surprised to learn that you will share a lot of hopes and fears. It is the act of sharing your desires and anxieties which, ironically, will act to reduce them or, perhaps, to completely eliminate them. Knowing, for example, that you both fear being "good", you will eliminate this anxiety because you feel less pressure on performance because you know that the other is also concerned about its performance. The same reasoning can be used for every anxiety. When you share your fears and your partner reflects these fears, they will almost disappear like magic.
3. Will I maintain an erection?
Let me ask you a question. Do you suffer erectile problems during masturbation? No? Then you will not suffer from erectile problems during sex. This is again the worry of an act that has yet to occur that can actually cause it. You worry not to maintain an erection; therefore, you do not maintain an erection. Do you agree? This is true. As a virgin, making love for the first time, you must get rid of your anxiety and focus on the act of making love. Fear of erectile problems will cause erectile problems. Since you have no problem maintaining an erection normally, there is no biological reason why you should suffer from this problem during a sexual encounter. To make sure that you can maintain an erection, you have to spend a lot of time on sex preliminaries, working in a very excited state. Preliminaries are also important because the more time you spend there, the more confidence you have in yourself and the less likely you are to lose your erection.
4. Will I perform well?
While virgins' sex tips go, this advice seems to be the most popular. Why? I think it's because virgins tend to be more anxious about overall sexual performance than they are about anything else. What is a good performance? A good performance occurs when both parties benefit from the experience. The secret to giving a good sexual performance is to focus on your partner and give him the maximum pleasure you are able to give him. Let them be the center of your universe. Notice what they seem to like and answer them appropriately. It is common for virgins to feel uncomfortable during sex and to make mistakes. If you make a mistake, laugh at it. It's common to make mistakes after all. If you make fun of an error, it gives the impression that nothing is wrong.
5. Will I have an orgasm?
Women tend to have orgasms less frequently than men at first intercourse. We can not say if you are going to have an orgasm or not. However, one thing is certain, you will be more likely to have an orgasm if you do two things. First of all, you do not have to worry about having an orgasm. This is not essential for your sexual pleasure. Second, focus on the pleasure of making love to such an extent that you forget your anxieties and maybe even the world around you. Like most anxieties, the more you worry about orgasm, the less likely you are to have one. improved. Overall, if you remove something from this article with you, do not forget to relax and focus on the beautiful act of making love with your partner.